INTRODUCTION:
There are many sources of negativity in our lives. Sometimes the circumstances are just far from perfect and we become unhappy and depressed, feeling like there is no way out of this downward spiral. It’s harder to get out of the situation when you are surrounded by toxic people. Most people lack the courage to let go of toxic people, however, the immunization process against toxic friends begins with tackling your relationships that do not empower you with the confidence to achieve your personal dreams, professional expectations and spiritual visions. It is important to remember that things do get better and that you do have the power to turn your life around. You must realize in order to reach this goal, you need to understand that dismission all and any toxic friend can be difficult. You have to prepare yourself to be ready spend time with sparkling stars, since you cannot afford to spend any idle time with non-resourceful people and unprofitable agendas.
Today, you can begin with letting go of toxic people, so starting today, surround yourself with individuals who will honor your authentic values and break lose all the toxic relationship of darkness. If you are going to grow in Christ you must be prepared to rid your life with unhealthy acquaintances, associations, fellowships and relationships taking time to rid “toxic people from your personal life, professional affiliations and spiritual relationships.” Because, the older we get, the more important it becomes to surround “self” with enthusiastic, moral, optimist, wholesome and spiritual sound people. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners. Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.” – I Corinthians 15:33–34. We need support systems that will be there when we need them the most and cheer us, on rather than drain us all our fruit throughout our journey. Also, with age, we have less time and energy for people who only carry negativity and drama. Life’s too short to keep and maintain relationships with those who can’t better you in some way, so ask yourself whether or not he or she adds any sort of value to your personal, professional and spiritual life. If the answer is no, it might be time to cut ties and move on to others who are worthy of your friendship.