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Kimley Dunlap-Slaughter

Eight Types of Toxic People: You Must Let Go Of For Spiritual Growth and Development


PART TWO:

Those Who Are Master Manipulator:

But sometimes there are people who just constantly want our attention just for the sake of getting attention. They are not helping you develop and grow, they are just pulling you into an unfruitful and unproductive life. This person is a master manipulator and constant controller. They want to be in charge, not just of their lives, but of yours and everyone else’s too. They watch you like a hawk, ready to pounce on your every flaw. They micro-manage down to the last detail. They have trouble letting go, so they don’t, they hold on, too tightly, until it about chokes out all those around them, suffocating others with their drive to be superior. They use gossip as a weapon and there is always a hidden agenda. Manipulative friends know how to extract information from you or get you to reveal certain weaknesses which they will then use against you. They will exploit your generosity and your social conscience and will rarely give anything in return.

Those Who Have a Jealous Spirit:

These people have a range of tactics and remarks which can be very hurtful. Some people are constantly jealous, they are never happy with what they have, and they will never be happy when good things happen to you. They will keep sending toxic and negative vibrations out of envy, because from their point of view that good thing that happened to you should have happened to them. You want to surround yourself with people who will support you and who will help you move forward. We all make mistakes and we can all be negative, judgmental, self–centered or jealous at times. And that is OK. We are all human. What does matter, however, is that we are willing to work on ourselves, to grow and to try harder to be better people. But if there is someone in your life who is not willing to do that, it is time to get rid of that person. You need to stop allowing the same people to hurt and disappoint you over and over again.

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