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Motherhood is the shedding of a skin that used to be. Becoming a mother can induce newfound compassion and strength but it can also breed resentment and depression. Some women struggle to find an identity at all after becoming mothers. It’s never guaranteed that motherhood will be as rewarding for some as it is for others. As a mother, you will feel weaker than you’ve ever felt in your life. You will have moments of such exhaustion and vulnerability that you’ll question your maternal path and your abilities altogether. What it means to be a mother is so much more than many of us bargained for, expected, or were told. Motherhood often takes no prisoners and it can indeed function without mercy on many occasions. But despite the trials, tribulations, and battles, motherhood is ultimately a gift. It’s a gift that tests us, evolves us, and shows us true compassion.
“Perhaps the reason we respond so universally to our mothers’ love is because it typifies the love of our Savior.” ~ Bradley D. Foster
“Becoming a mother makes you the mother of all children. From now on each wounded, abandoned, frightened child is yours. You live in the suffering mothers of every race and creed and weep with them. You long to comfort all who are desolate.” ~ Charlotte Gray
So, it is from the beginning that our mothers play a key role in helping to determine who we will become in life. Our ability to connect with the world around us begins with our connection to mom. Children who were loved, nurtured, encouraged, and spent their formative years in a safe and secure environment grew up to be healthy, well-adjusted, confident adults. Celebrating Mother's Day is not just a fun way to show appreciation for the one who loves you unconditionally; it has important psychological benefits as well. Whether it's your mom, grandma, a favorite aunt, teacher, or friend, the women in our lives shape and define us in ways both large and small.Godly mothers in the Bible are honored for serving the Lord and conducting the affairs of their homes with grace and diligence. “Perhaps the reason we respond so universally to our mothers’ love is because it typifies the love of our Savior.” ~ Bradley D. Foster
“The Christian mom doesn’t love Jesus instead of loving her children; she loves Jesus by loving her children.” - Jen Wilkin
Most moms would agree that being a mother is the most difficult job in the world. As a mother of three, I know it's true. What keeps us going despite all the challenges? No matter how hard the day has been, when you feel those chubby toddler arms around your neck, all the troubles melt away. Same goes for kisses and cuddles. These are just added bonuses to being a mother, which make everything you do worth it. Every mom knows that seeing your baby's first smile is priceless. I can remember the first smile of each of my children and feeling that new connection. Similarly, hearing a baby laugh can hush all the fears and worries you might have. All moms make mistakes with their children, and this might cause guilt. Your child will love you regardless. Let's face it, children are funny. Their ability to be honest about a person or situation brings so much joy to parenting. In addition, they are much more genuine and heartfelt than most adults. There is so much we can learn from them, in this regard. A Christian mother recognizes that Biblical motherhood isn't a popularity contest; it is a commitment to God's standards for life and motherhood. A godly mom chooses not to fret about gaining worldly acceptance and meeting unrealistic expectations. Instead, she devotes herself to living in a way that is pleasing to God. "She girds herself with strength, And strengthens her arms. She perceives that her merchandise is good, And her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the distaff, And her hand holds the spindle" Proverbs 31:17-19 (NKJV).
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